Gone Fishin’
The "Gone Fishin'" card is deeply personal, inspired by the life and legacy of John LaDouceur, a man whose love for fishing was only surpassed by his love for his family. Known affectionately as "Big John" to many, he was a gentle giant with a heart as vast and welcoming as the lakes and rivers he so often visited. John’s passion for fishing was not just a hobby; it was a reflection of his approach to life—patient, thoughtful, and always ready to embrace the quiet moments that brought him closer to nature and to the people he loved.
John LaDouceur was more than just an avid fisherman; he was a father whose presence was a source of unwavering support and love. His daughter (the creator of this deck) recounts the many ways he showed up for her throughout her life, often at the most unexpected yet needed times. Whether it was a surprise visit or a timely phone call, John had an almost magical ability to sense when he was needed, offering comfort without the need for words. His presence alone was enough to reassure and uplift those around him, reminding them that they were never truly alone.
His love extended beyond just his immediate family. John had a natural love for children, always able to bring a smile to their faces with his playful demeanor. His ability to connect with the younger generation was a testament to his genuine and kind nature, traits that he passed down to his children. This connection to the younger generation also highlights how he lived a life full of integrity, ensuring that the lessons he imparted were rooted in fairness, equity, and love.
Similarly, as a popular mechanic in the area, his daughter recalls John answering the phone at their house, listening to the person on the other end of the line describe the sound their engine was making, then offering an accurate understanding of the problem. To his kids, but also to others, he seemed magical in his ability to literally fix anything. But he also believed everyone is deserving to receive services regardless of their situation. John often repaired vehicles and boat motors, sometimes for as little as a bartered fishing pole in exchange.
Fishing was one of the many ways John connected with the world around him. It was in those moments of solitude and quiet reflection on the water that he found peace and rejuvenation. The act of fishing mirrored his approach to life—patiently waiting, appreciating the calm, and knowing that sometimes, the best things come to those who wait. For John, fishing was not just about the catch but about the experience, the connection to nature, and the time spent with loved ones.
In the years since his passing, his daughter has kept his memory alive through stories and reflections, ensuring that his legacy continues to influence and inspire those around her. The Gone Fishin' card serves as a tribute to John LaDouceur, celebrating not just his love for fishing but the deep, enduring love he had for his family. It is a reminder to take time for the simple joys in life, to be present for those who matter, and to find peace in the quiet moments by the water, much like John did throughout his life.
As you engage with this card, may it inspire you to embrace the patience, love, and quiet strength that Big John exemplified, reminding you that sometimes the best way to navigate life's challenges is to simply go fishin'.